00:00
00:00
VicariousE
Wanted to be a simple man of the Earth, enjoying art and literature, the bounty of the Earth. Instead, I have to fend against governments and principalities, global conspiracies and bad social engineering, ree, my autism

Age 51, Male/Penis

dillgent tryhard

Jeffersonian

homeless/NE USA

Joined on 2/15/01

Level:
50
Exp Points:
27,016 / 27,750
Exp Rank:
472
Vote Power:
9.07 votes
Audio Scouts
6
Rank:
Lieutenant
Global Rank:
674
Blams:
1,707
Saves:
11,938
B/P Bonus:
36%
Whistle:
Bronze
Trophies:
2
Medals:
12,901
Supporter:
8y 3m 15d
Gear:
6

Moving out: update(s)

Posted by VicariousE - October 13th, 2015


The electric company finally got around to sending a lineman out to cut the cord to the farmhouse, which means as soon as I get back from the library, the neighbors are getting a few pounds of butter and some frozen veg PDQ

Yesterday, I finally got a hand in moving my stuff into the containers (2 of them), for which I'm extremely grateful!  I've packed containers for people before, but not one of my own.  Luckily I  now have enough room for the house furniture as well.  While we were doing that, the Phillipino surveyors showed up, and one of the new owners of the farm was not far behind.  Though it's an extremely late date, he said he'd get me an extension for another 2 months in writing, something I wanted from the very start!  Even if he should come through with the paperwork, it's likely I'll split anyway, and hope the dozen cats I leave behind won't starve (gonna pay a neighbor to feed and water them once every morning).

So, that's where I'm at now: no power at home, 90+% of my crap all boxed up and ready to get stored off-site this Friday, and a shit-ton of ambiguity everywhere else.  One thing about ambiguity: it doesn't do well in the daylight out on the road, where it's sink or swim, all the way.

I guess this day was long in coming.  Once my father passed away (almost 3 years ago), the family will came into force, and stated all my parents assets (including the farm) were to be sold, and the profits split between the surviving kids, of which, I am the least (and most put-upon) of the 3 ._.


My feelings in this matter are pretty indifferent, but I'll do my best to make the best of a lame situation.


10.17.15 Update:  The farmhouse is pretty much cleared out, except for my loney bed and 2 dining room tables.  Yesterday I had the smaller of the 2 Pack-Rat storage containers removed to a safe location.  Since it's going to be below freezing tonight, I'm getting a local hotel room ._.  Still waiting on the new owner(s) for a final walkthough on the property, which is crucial if I wanna get back my 5,000$ deposit.

10.17.15 Update #2:  This hotel room seriously sucks, there's no washing machines on site, no smoking in any of the rooms, the bathroom is hellatiny and the toilet clogged for no apparent reason.  Can't believe this is worth 120$ a night... might ask for another room Sunday.

end of line


Comments

Weirdest moving out scenario i've heard to date if i'm completely honest with you and i've heard my fair share over the years, including kids that lived in honest to god mansions.

Owning property is so overrated, makes me glad i declined my share of my father's estate after he passed back in twentyten.

Anyhoo, hope you don't have to rough it out for too long cus the nights are only getting longer and colder.

Eh, I've always been labeled 'strange'; strange for living on a farm surrounded by suburbs, having older parents, etc, etc...

I've never been one to gladly support middlemen, which landlords inevitably are... even me :O though I'm only 1/3 a landlord, and we sure aren't getting the kinda rent we should, or could. Bad enough a committee of 3 now own my old farm

Damn straight it's cold :( though there may be enough hot water still left in the tank for another shower... damn quick one lol

Gonna say man, damn, like AliceMako said, one hell of a moving experience lol. Sorry to hear about your father though. Hope everything will be settled and done with, you probably feel better once this is out of your hair lol. Good to see you post though!

Yeah, still looks as though I'm outta here. I'd have loved to take the new owners at their word, but the third partner held up the sale, by adding a very strange land-use agreement, which legally, is still in force! I hate legalities, I'd love to take ppl at their word, but like we used to say, "If it ain't on the page, it ain't on the stage"

I disagree. Owning property is great. Only if you take it all for yourself and cut everyone else off.

You be careful out there.

Property is theft lol, but yeah I'm with you. If I want to build a green jello walrus pit, that's my call, not the landlord's ;3

You betcher boots buddy, got the truck washed, fueled and inspected today... those (vehicle inspectors) bastards are so lazy, our Governor gave up on yearly inspections, and settled for emission testing every 2 years, what a joke, damn glad I passed though, they'll still flunk you if they see anything they don't like

Oh dang, that does sound a bite strange there, yeah, I don't blame you on that one man. Never heard of anything like that before. Like what are the details if you don't mind me asking?

2-1/2 months ago, 3 investors bought the farm I've been on, for the last 40+ years. The last minute hang-up on the sale, hinged around a complex lease deal, so my older sibling and I could stay and clean it up a bit more. They granted me 2 months @ 500$ a month... with a 5K$ security deposit, which is reasonable considering the size of the property, and any post-sale vandalism

So, emotionally speaking, I'm currently in a halfway house (hotel actually), while the last bits of my stuff are stowed 'off the site'. Funny how I worked on so many 'sites' in construction and video shoots... the guy who brokered the deal called me Sunday while I was looking for a laundromat, "Yeah, I'm at the site now."

I said, "Shit man, I've never heard of my home ever being called 'the site' before," then I fell back to the brass tacks of the matter, I'd be home in 5-10 minutes. I saw his car as I crested the last hill, drove slowly around the far side of it, circling to the left, paralleling the 'back 40' field, which is gnarly... yup.

huh, never knew it was in your family will that your farm was to be sold. That makes your lack of real-world opposition to your siblings plans despite having adversity to sell your home all the more understandable. Any idea why your family wanted the farm sold after they passed?? And why do I have a propensity for typing run-on sentences??

It's good that you are deciding to make the best out of this situation that has been dragged out and not taken course as swimmingly as desired. You are a great person, perhaps the "father NewGrounder", and I wish for your happiness (again). I hope you find a peaceful place to settle down, churn out some tasty nutritious wholesome crops, relax, and continue to contribute to NewGrounds for the years to come. Nothing can take away this digital fantasy in this f*cked up world...be safe and watch out for your cornhole, buddy.

I guess it goes back to what I said before, about money being the root of all evil... by selling all assets and splitting it into 1/3rds, it takes a lot of the ambiguity out of it. Plus, my Pop was a hoarder, which made the sale of the farm while he was alive, rather impossible.

I'll tell ya, I'd feel more relaxed if the tenants next door -didn't- decide to use a disused fire pit, that's located right next to where I parked my Pop's backhoe/loader ._. Guess it's just par for the course... leaving NJ is like sending up a flare to all the locals, "fresh meat available for picking"... predators like to chase running prey lol

money isn't evil, but forcing people into a life where they become nothing more than dollar sign generators is certainly evil. That aside, some people are just blessed with nice things, in other cases it's sheer hard work and a little bit of luck, to which people with money gift them for their services. no reason not to take advantage of what you find/are given as long as it isn't at the expense of other people, and as long as you don't act entitled towards such wealth. However, when you start valuing making a paycheck more than you value doing your job, then you would be drifting towards evil.

This comment has a VicariousE-rating of 95% Thanks for saying it S3C.

It sure does have a bearing on my recent experiences out of state so far. My favorite quote from Buckaroo Banzai, "Hey, hey, hey, don't be mean. Because, no matter, where you go... there you are." I guess the same is true for other people I've met over the years.

The real robber-barons live and work in the cities, and they pay their trusted servants just enough to live on the fringes of that city. From the cities, the entitlements are passed out, so that there will always be a people loyal to the robber barons, who have no choice but to buy their products anyway...

Once they killed religion, they killed community, and with those, we have no other choice but to do the deeds the robber barons would have us do.

(Almost sounds like socialism bro, but is it? Nah! Socialism places Man's law over God's law, and I think we as people, need to trust God more and Men less.... lol, it says so on the back of the dollar bill :)